pity on the man who falls, and has no one to pick him up

I need some help! I want to dye my hair, but I don't know what to do! So here's some ideas.... (it's the attack of the asians!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)Should I keep it dark brown and add redish highlights???or do I go really light brown...?

or get some like blonde and brownish highlights??

or should i dye it really dark and add red highlights?? EMO MUCH?? haha i don't think i'd put this many red highlights.... maybe like just one streak under the hair?

please do tell me what i should do... and i also need to grow my hair out